In this weeks Farmers Journal, Irish Country Living Magazine, I talked to Dear Miriam about one readers relationship dilemma.
I would be grateful if you could advise me please. Not so long ago, I found out my husband of almost six years has been watching porn. I just can’t get it into my head why he does this. I feel cheated for some reason, why, I don’t know. We have two beautiful children and I thought we had a good relationship. I feel I can’t trust him anymore as my feelings for him have changed. I have confronted him about this, but he says nothing. I am writing to you in confidence. Thank you. Anon
Thank you for your letter. I’m sure that you must be very confused and upset at this time, so to give you the best advice possible I have been in touch with Orlagh Gahan, who is a Psychotherapist at The Centre for Sexual Addictions in Dublin and in private practice at orlaghgahan.ie.