Irish Country Living: Dear Miriam, I found out that my husband is watching porn…

In this weeks Farmers Journal, Irish Country Living Magazine, I talked to Dear Miriam about one readers relationship dilemma.

Dear Miriam,

I would be grateful if you could advise me please. Not so long ago, I found out my husband of almost six years has been watching porn. I just can’t get it into my head why he does this. I feel cheated for some reason, why, I don’t know. We have two beautiful children and I thought we had a good relationship. I feel I can’t trust him anymore as my feelings for him have changed. I have confronted him about this, but he says nothing. I am writing to you in confidence. Thank you. Anon

IrishCountryLivingDearMiriam 30.7.15Dear Anon,

Thank you for your letter. I’m sure that you must be very confused and upset at this time, so to give you the best advice possible I have been in touch with Orlagh Gahan, who is a Psychotherapist at The Centre for Sexual Addictions in Dublin and in private practice at



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Orlagh Gahan is a an IACP accredited Psychotherapist, Sex and Relationship Therapist, Addiction Counsellor & Specialist Fertility Counsellor in private practice in Co. Kildare, Ireland and worldwide online. She specialises in sexual wellbeing, psychosexual problems, sexual recovery, couples & relationship therapy and addiction recovery. Orlagh works with individuals and couples online using DOXY.ME, a secure telemedicine platform. Find out more or book a consultation online at

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